Help Raz Campiagn!!

anyone got a dip/main relay for a 200tdi, 5 pin female, think its 2 on top row 3 on bottom???????????
got no headlights and had to turn down 2 recoveries tonight.

ask stig, he might have the one off mine still

dont matter, took one of my mates rangie to try today with no conclusion as to what it is, noticed that the pugs was melted on the back of the lights so i have put new connections on and now my lights will turn off (which i used to have to take the fuse out to do) i get side lights, and if i put main beam on i now get headlights but have no main beam?????????????????????