Tomb Raider top lights relay?!

I have a Tomb Raider defender and it came with a 3 point black relay under the right seat beside the ecu...this relay became faulty and I removed it to get a new one and now I can't seem to find it.
This relay is a 3 pin black relay that powers the main 4 pin yellow which powers the lights on the roof.

Can some one please send me a picture and the part number of this relay.... I once looked it up in microcat and it shows up as a TR specific part.

Please help!

Photo of the relay and any writing on the side might help? I got a relay thats kicking about my house that came off some old spots

Def110TDi said:

Photo of the relay and any writing on the side might help? I got a relay thats kicking about my house that came off some old spots

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Thats the thing... I don't have the relay and not even a photo and thats what I am looking for.

This is the relay that came off my old twin spotlight loom they are usually 4 pin relays....aren't all the 3 pin relays flasher relays for the indecators and stuff?

http://www.flickr.com/photos/78189292@N05/7442810890/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/78189292@N05/7442812654/

Why not refit with a 4 pin relay? Could even use a five pin relay I would have thought

Ryder said:

Why not refit with a 4 pin relay? Could even use a five pin relay I would have thought

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never known a spot relay to be anything less than 4 pin