Freelander tow bar (how to fit???)

Hi can any one help me, im trying to fit a tow bar to my freelander. Tow bar isnt a problem its the electrics. Where do i find the plug on the loom that the lights plug into and what relys do i need?? I keep reading about a 7way relay but the kit only came with a 4pin relay to repace the 3pin 1???

Can any one help me

remove the o/s rear quarter panel and the plug is in there.

Plug is in the offside rear quarter behind the panel that has the little cubby in it (well, on the 3dr anyway) just behind the wheel arch. To get it off you need to remove the strip that runs the width of the car beneath the rear door, or at least the end couple of screws. There are 4 screws/clips which look like netting tie points that turn to release the panel then it peels out from the door/roof seals. Bugger to get back in but necessary. The hole for bringing the wires into the back of the car is also exposed when you remove this panel, on the boot floor in the corner.

Could scan in the instructions at work on monday of you're really struggling, but it's fairly straight forward.

Not sure on the relay question. I just did a straight swap between the kit (I think 4 pin) and original one.

Check this thread
www.landyzone.co.uk/lz/f9/towbar-fitting-instructions-51094.html