wow. where to start,
to make it easier i would run a new cable, either through existing switch, new switch or wired to ignition,
existing switch, you will have to find a way of only having you side lights switched on, then look for the 12v pos, when you think you have found it, switch them off to ensure. benefit of this being from the dash it looks nice and original.
new switch, from ignition on pos, through propper rated inline fuse, through switch. benifit being that new cables, so you know what goes where.
wired to ignoition, from ignition on, tap a wire through inline fuse. benefit being no worry about forgetting your side lights, and when you switch off you will never leav them on.
once you have decided on the course of action, it is a case of running the the wire to a good point to splice into the side light circuit, to make sure you do not short circuit back, cut and protect the cables back from the splice,
other issues are your head lights, they should come on only once your sidelights are on, so i hope they are working.
other wise, get some masking tape, a pen and test all day mark what you know, isolate circuits by pulling fuses or switching off, multimeter away or look for obvious signs, it will be tedious but if you mark each cable as you go it will be better in the future. maybe look into a rewire.. not to hard to do yourself, just think about it logically and do one circuit at a time.