your help please

Been here several times before and cancer a cruel disease.

My girlfriends granddad has cancers caged and removed regularly- I like the guy and I have told her to enjoy the time she has.

I'm worried she can't see how short the time she has is

Told her money doesn't matter-enjoy your time, but she won't accept it.

Comes out with grandad has always been there:doh:

My granddad slowly going same way.

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Few things bring me close to tears-but watching 9 months of someone terminally ill and dying made me cry (only human)
Few things that hurt like hell

Cancer care and support charity - Macmillan Cancer Support

Only charity I support

i know exactly where your comeing from fanatic and can fully sympathise with you in the last 4 years ive witnessed 2 of me uncles slowly destroyed by cancer ( lungs and throat)

seen me grandad beat skin cancer and 2 months after get nailed by pneumonia on his own in bed just before this christmas

also 5 years ago one of me mates tried foneing me wich i missed the call coz i was asleep and listened to his voicemail message saying he couldnt cope with watching his mum suffer with cancer but he didnt state where he was

i must have set off from my house in the car on 2 wheels trying to find him went evrywhere his girlfreinds his mates his works even to one of his workmates houses took me 1 hour to find him but too late

hed hung himself in his dads garage behind the house if only id answered the fone

Guys... you and yours have my full sympathy.

Have lost an Uncle, cousin and nearly lost my father too. My brother in law lost both parents in the space of three years. Horrible horrible disease which doesnt have any respect for age/gender/health etc....

My daughter (she's 10) has a lad in her school class, who's being slowly eaten away by some form of tumour on the brain. Brave brave lad and his parents too and fair play to them for trying to continue as normally as possible..... Have to admit, I've shed a few tears when my littl'un (the other kids don't know how ill he really is ) tells me about him...

Totally agree with you Fanatic - as best you can, feck the expense and enjoy every possible moment.

These things kinda put everything else into perspective.

me mums just been treated for it aswell she,s on her way home today from bristol (southmeads) not a nice fing i must admit