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Daniel J. Stern
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On Thu, 4 Dec 2003, David J. Allen wrote:
> Traditional marriage with it's meaningfulness for families (read children)
> serves a meaningful purpose to the benefit of all of us, which is providing
> a stable place for children to be raised to be production members of
> society. It ADDS to society. Gay marriage does what? It allows gay
> couples the benefits of marriage (inheretence, insurance, etc.) but serves
> no other useful purpose to society. And NO I'm NOT arguing against marriage
> for childless couples.
Well, either you're arguing against marriage for sterile or childless
heterosexuals, or you're being disingenuous and two-faced. Which is it?
> I don't really even buy the argument that there are benefits gay couples
> can't have without marriage.
Oh? So if rights of succession, inheritance, social security, joint tax
filing and so forth aren't benefits, what are they, then?
> To me, it's part of an agenda to normalize gays in society in every way
Maybe that's what they mean when they march through the street hollering
"We're here, we're queer, get used to it."
> When we devalue the family unit then marriage becomes less relevent
Seems to me heterosexuals, with their plus-fifty-percent divorce rate,
have managed to devalue the family unit and trivialize marriage very well
without any assistance from gays.
> This shouldn't be a civil rights argument.
That's exactly what it is, whether you like it or not.
DS
> Traditional marriage with it's meaningfulness for families (read children)
> serves a meaningful purpose to the benefit of all of us, which is providing
> a stable place for children to be raised to be production members of
> society. It ADDS to society. Gay marriage does what? It allows gay
> couples the benefits of marriage (inheretence, insurance, etc.) but serves
> no other useful purpose to society. And NO I'm NOT arguing against marriage
> for childless couples.
Well, either you're arguing against marriage for sterile or childless
heterosexuals, or you're being disingenuous and two-faced. Which is it?
> I don't really even buy the argument that there are benefits gay couples
> can't have without marriage.
Oh? So if rights of succession, inheritance, social security, joint tax
filing and so forth aren't benefits, what are they, then?
> To me, it's part of an agenda to normalize gays in society in every way
Maybe that's what they mean when they march through the street hollering
"We're here, we're queer, get used to it."
> When we devalue the family unit then marriage becomes less relevent
Seems to me heterosexuals, with their plus-fifty-percent divorce rate,
have managed to devalue the family unit and trivialize marriage very well
without any assistance from gays.
> This shouldn't be a civil rights argument.
That's exactly what it is, whether you like it or not.
DS