Exhaust Steve Parker 300tdi into 110 12J 1985

Hi All
I have Bit the bullet and bought the whole Steve Parker Exhaust system, came to fit it today and i am an idiot so i know i am missing something obvious here! I have emailed them but not heard back yet so thought i'd see if you could tell me where i am being so stupid.
I don't have any cones in the kit and i can't see how you join them up straight to each other without at least one? Have all the connecting bolts and hanging brackets and that bit makes sense but the joins between the 4 sections don"t to me at all and i have studied the rather pictorially vague fitting instructions.
I seem to have 1 to many 2 hole joints (flange) or 1 to few 3 hole joints or is it me?
Hopefully these pics will help .
Took a day off today too so i could get this done. Any advice on exhaust fitting would be appreciated i went with this as i thought it would simplify at least one job!

Male cone to female cone?

lynall said:

Male cone to female cone?

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Yeah sorry my exhaust terminology isn't great! where there are two flared ends i guessed that a olive or a cone is used to connect? I still can't work out how i can connect the two hole plates to a 3 hole plate though..i must be missing something here or i really am being dense, i have pulled up all info i can on exhaust fitting but this is supposed to be a kit drops in.
Still not heard from Parkers guess they are busy.

My stainless exhaust is all male to female cone, sadly the 2 hole plates are mild steel!
Mine system was old when i bought the car and Ive cut/shut and welded it a few times for different reasons and its been really good.