so Tim Hobbs was, like...
>> well now. The timing is rather handy. but even granting that it's
>> fully legit, they've still agreed to buy it. I'm prepared to be
>> flexible about collection if their circumstances are currently
>> difficult, but if they don't buy it they get a negative, I'm afraid.
>> If my circumstances suddenly changed after I'd contracted to buy
>> something, I'd not expect that this would be viable as a reason not
>> to complete the deal.
>>
>> Nor was there any secrecy about where the motor is located.
>
> Such is life on ebay. If someone changes their mind about a deal,
> contract law notwithstanding, a bit of negative feedback probably
> won't sway them
Most won't worry too much about contract law, unless the amounts involved
are substantial. Are you really going to take someone to court for a grand
or so? And that assumes they are in your own jurisdiction and you are able
to do so without involving international lawyers.
The only neg feedback I have had came as a result of a guy in California who
had won a Nikon I was selling and pulled out (or rather disappeared from
view and didn't reply to any contact) when I told him what the shipping cost
would be from UK. I gave him a couple of weeks and then gave him neg
feedback (of the "warning - avoid" kind) and he responded with neg feedback
to me. Totally unjustified, but it's there for ever now. If I get
positives for evey transaction from now until the end of time, I will still
never have 100%. This irritates me, and it wasn't really worth it for the
temporary satisfaction of typing a negative and seeing it in his profile.
I'd be inclined to take this on the chin and relist. You won't pay final
fees if you do this - you will only have lost the listing fee and a bit of
time. Or go to your second bidder with an offer. You would have the
satisfaction of relisting with a cutting "relisted to to utter timewasting
w*nker" in the description, and your original winning bidder can't respond.
I reckon eBay works well, on the whole, but I take it for what it is -
dealing with unknowns, where anything can happen, and accept that
occasionally people don't behave as well as they should.
--
Rich
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