Swapped out the diaphragm seal and it's sorted it, didn't even need a new compressor in the end so thanks for the help. I did, whilst waiting fit an online valve to the pipe that goes to the tank and bought a tyre inflater with the self level relay out at night. This proved that my suspension didn't have a leak also, as after 5 days of being sat there it stayed up even in all corners.
However...
Its not a big issue just annoying. With that sorted I went back to leaving it with relay in. But for some reason it decides to lower itself. As soon as I shut the door it does it thing. Sometimes overnight it stays up but does a little jig in the morning. Other times it's right down (still air in tank so raises straight away)