Hi All,
Ok, first thing is that the car IS running again and I would like to thank everyone for their help.......but i'm not 100% convinced it was a sync issue.
I tried everything suggested and some other things suggested to me outside this forum but nothing worked. I even booked an Auto electrician to come out to have a look at it on Friday.......won't need him now.
Here's what fixed it......I took the cover off from around the drivers seat so I could see the multi-plugs for the BECM and I took them out one at a time to check them and they all seemed ok, BUT there is a white plug in the centre which has four prongs and there was a grey coating over all four prongs (corrosion) so I cleaned them and plugged it back in and tried the ignition switch and the Check Engine light was on.
Now I think it would have started there but I decided to use my Sync Mate anyway just to make sure and it fired up first time.
Anyway, thanks again to everyone for you input, it really is appreciated.