Sorted. On the 2003 Defender TD5, if you whip the plug off the wiper motor so you're looking at the mating end of the plug, you'll see 5 connectors: two vertical ones on each side and one horizontal one on top (that's the ground). Snip the two vertical ones on the left and you take the park switch out of the the circuit. When I did this, the wipers started working stably again and no more blown fuses. I've left it like that, so on the stalk I've now got "off", "normal-on" and "fast-on" functions. I don't need anything beyond that so will not be bothering with fitting a new park switch (which will doubtless only go wrong again at some future time).