Roland said that these guides are silicon bronze and need a bit of extra room cold. Anway I don't thing a bit of play in the guides would account for the difference in valve clearance between hot/cold. All the other valves don't change hot to cold by more than one finger size on the feeler guage...
I pulled the spring back on the suspect rocker and slid the rocker up and down the shaft and tried it for wiggle and it was all feeling good, spring and washer seemed ok too. Shaft didn't look to be scored or worn.
The rocker assembly is all fairly new (3000 miles) as the old rocker ends were worn. I swapped all rockers and springs - can't remember if I swapped the shaft but I think I did. I'm tempted to just transplant the old ones back and see if it goes away....
Anyway it still drives perfectly fine...thanks for the responses...