OK lets use the much loved pub scenario......I walk into a pub I don't know
Me.......'Cuse me mate where's the loos?
Regular.....Who the fook are you arsehole?
The rest of the conversation would likely be rather more gutteral with a strong likelihood of spilt beer
AND I would still need a ****.......unless it went badly in which case I probably wouldn't
The point is (if there still is one) is we all know the rules, some are more or less enforced depending on where you are but a
fook off to a polite inquirey leads to the same place wherever you are.
Too strong, too soon. It's not a test of charactor, an initiation, a bit of baiting or leaping on a dummy spitter.....
It's simply chasing people off.
Tone it down a little and give folk a chance please before letting rip