so i have checked all fues no have blown could it be the ecu or the glow plug relay which should i do first ?
Have you checked the fuse on the relay? It's an 80 amp ribbon type. The relay is bolted to the engine ecu.
Here's a pic of a blown one.

so i have checked all fues no have blown could it be the ecu or the glow plug relay which should i do first ?
the fuse on the top of the relay is fine and i checked all the other fuses and they are all fine
arh right i am with you now thanks for that. relay 19 is that one if the yellow relays in the fuse box under the bonnet?
found relay 19 swapped it for another and still the same can the glow relay make the engine check light not illuminate when the ignition is turned on ??
Anything is possible with a P38....no no one mentioned that can a short corse loss of sync?