There is normally a bit of float between the torque converter and the flex plate. When fitting the box onto the engine the torque converter is pushed back as far as it'll go into the g/box and then pulled forward to the flex plate slightly to be bolted together. The torque converter seal will allow for this. This tells you that the convertor is mounted correctly into the box. If the convertor comes up tight against the flex plate straight away and the bell housing still has a gap in it the convertor is out of its place and the g/box needs removing and the installation checking. If the box is pulled into place while the torque converter is touching the flex plate there is a risk damage will occur.
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